Getting started
Signs your toddler is ready for potty training
Readiness is about the body and the mind together. The bladder needs to hold pee for a while, and your child needs to notice the feeling and want to do something about it. Age is a rough guide; signs matter more.
What to do this week
- Look for 3 or more of these signs: dry for 2 hours or more, dry after naps, hides or goes quiet to poop, tells you when the diaper is wet or dirty, interested in the toilet, can pull pants down and up, follows simple 2-step instructions.
- Do a few days of hourly diaper checks and log them. Dry spells of 1.5 to 2 hours are a strong green light.
- If only a few signs are there, start a warm-up: potty books, sitting clothed, watching you. Most kids show more signs within weeks.
What to say
“You told me your diaper is wet! Soon pee can go in the potty instead.”
Try not to say
“You're too old for diapers now.”
When to call your pediatrician
- Your child is 4 or older and shows no progress at all
- Pain when peeing or pooping, or blood in either
- Hard, painful poops or fewer than 3 poops a week
- Never dry at all, even for a short time
More guides
- Getting startedWhat's the best age to start potty training?Read the guide
- First daysHow many accidents are normal in the first week of potty training?Read the guide
- First days3-day potty training not working? What to do on day 3Read the guide
- Not telling meHow to get your toddler to tell you they need to goRead the guide
Last reviewed October 26, 2026. Based on public guidance from the American Academy of Pediatrics (HealthyChildren.org) and the NHS. This is general information, not medical advice. If you're worried about your child's health, talk to your pediatrician.