Special situations
Potty training boys: sitting or standing first?
Sitting first is usually easiest. Boys often need to poop and pee at the same time, standing needs aim and balance, and sitting keeps the routine simple.
What to do this week
- Teach sitting for both pee and poop first. Show him how to gently push his penis down so pee goes into the potty.
- Once sitting is reliable, try standing if he's interested, often by watching dad or an older brother.
- For aim practice, a floating cereal piece or a target sticker in the toilet makes it fun.
What to say
“Push it down, pee goes in the potty.”
Try not to say
“Big boys stand up to pee.”
When to call your pediatrician
- No progress at all by age 4
- Pain when peeing or pooping
- Ongoing constipation
- You have concerns about development you haven't discussed with your pediatrician
More guides
- Getting startedSigns your toddler is ready for potty trainingRead the guide
- Getting startedWhat's the best age to start potty training?Read the guide
- First daysHow many accidents are normal in the first week of potty training?Read the guide
- First days3-day potty training not working? What to do on day 3Read the guide
Last reviewed October 26, 2026. Based on public guidance from the American Academy of Pediatrics (HealthyChildren.org) and the NHS. This is general information, not medical advice. If you're worried about your child's health, talk to your pediatrician.